Confidence

This is a massive stumbling block in development, many new mediums feel 'we can't say this' or 'can't say that' or may even 'edit' what they get, what are your views on this, what are your experiences?

You're quite correct, I'm sitting for development and it can be very hard to be confident, I try never to edit anything but when it is a little fuzzy it can be hard not to!

Butterfly wrote:

You're quite correct, I'm sitting for development and it can be very hard to be confident, I try never to edit anything but when it is a little fuzzy it can be hard not to!

I'm sure your confidence will grow Butterfly in time.

This is so hard especially after so long away from it

Jay wrote:

This is so hard especially after so long away from it

I think the confidence thing is so important. I had a visual whilst talking to my friend, it was her birthday the next day and i "saw" a bracelet with a dangly bit that looked like where you would put a locket photo into. It was silver.

I knew that my friend hated silver and would never have a bracelet like that, so i told her what i saw and for some reason said well it's not gold like you like but paler cos i didn't want to admit it was silver!! I also didn't mention the picture bit as i knew no one would get her that either!

The next day she had been brought for a pressie, a silver key chain that was bracelet size with a dangly bit on the bottom where you can keep photos in!!

So guess the lesson here is to trust what you are shown!! doh! (first bus home!)

Hey well done you

Thanks Jay but I could have kicked myself severely - actually i did

I was on an investigation the other week and was talking to a medium i had not met before, in no time i was telling him things about the place i was in, names ect, something i had never done before, this medium had given me the confidence to come out with what i was seeing which helped me greatly. I was so pleased with myself that night. Your so right Wendy, confidence is so very important and if someone can help you gain this, its great.

Linda wrote:

I was on an investigation the other week and was talking to a medium i had not met before, in no time i was telling him things about the place i was in, names ect, something i had never done before, this medium had given me the confidence to come out with what i was seeing which helped me greatly. I was so pleased with myself that night. Your so right Wendy, confidence is so very important and if someone can help you gain this, its great.

This is great news